Wednesday Wisdom – 5 October

My dear,

As each week goes by and autumn shows all of its colours and moods, some people usually get sad because of the departure of the long and sunny weather. While I thrive better during warm days, I notice that cold ones are the time to reminisce about precious moments and also – time to make plans for the future. Because that excitement keeps us motivated and strong when nature brings us the whirlwind of its constantly changing weather. And even if the weather gets worse, we shouldn’t feel discouraged. We must continue with our ventures, aim to succeed, even if success means just to wake up every day, smiling and enjoying the life we have. Because for some people waking up means climbing a mountain. And many others can’t enjoy the privileges we are lucky to have.

Today I am posting this picture that I found on the BBC Sport site during the Summer Olympics. The main theme of the article (you can read it, it is very well-written) may at fist look different from the point I want to show now, but if you look at it as a whole, you will see that success has a different meaning to every person. Whether it is dealing with bad weather changes like a pro, or just waking up and facing reality – every person on this planet has their own battle for success. Because, at the end we only see the smiling bright face of a person that hides their own bad mood or wasted nerves or a person that has decided to stand up and show strength and confidence, despite the fact that they hate being the center of attention. Every time it is different, but each time you have this iceberg illusion – people see only the results.

I don’t want to make it sound like a depressing thing. We should look at this picture as a reminder that we are not alone in our struggles in this world and also – as a motivation that will keep us determined during bad times.

So, my dear, don’t feel subdued by the way other people look at you or by the way they pursue their dreams. Sometimes you have to act carefully and slowly, and try not to be overwhelmed by the super ambitious, result-oriented people who often forget to treasure their personal connections. Be strong and believe in yourself.

With all my care,

R.